BOYS AND BANTS

Kuna some questions about boys issues that only a guy can answer. That’s why we asked some of our SKY guys for their advice on some situations we may have faced. Cheki what they had to say!

Hi guys! So, saa hizi, I’m kinda stuck between two guys who like me na I don’t know who to pick. The first one has been my crush for the longest. He is so cute and gives me butterflies. Guy number two is so funny and cool. Also tunalike the same movies and stuff. Aki nisiaidieni!

-Tiff, age 15

Ken

For me, I think you should always go for the person uko na a lot in common with cause mutaelewana vizuri. Inaweza kuwa hard to choose but maybe do a quick list of the things unashare between the two guys halafu go with the one who you share more with. Lakini kumbuka to be kind to the one you choose not to go with.

Yunasi

Pia mimi I think you should go with guy number two, because as from what i have understood you know him at a personal level and you both seem to have a lot in common. That always makes a relationship fun!

Elias

Ai…mimi I have to disagree 😅😅😅😅 Guy one for sure, cause you really have chemistry and that's is also special. Once mujuane you will find out what you have in common. Guy two anaweza kuwa your friend.

Kuna this guy who I have been friends with for a while. Nilianza kum-like lakini  he doesn’t feel the same. How can I make things normal again between us cause the awkwardness inanimaliza? I miss my friend.

-Akello, age 17

Ken

Heh! First of all, big up for expressing your feelings kwa sababu a lot of girls hawakuangi brave kufanya hiyo 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 I’m sorry haikuwa mutual. But I think ukipea time, the awkwardness will isha. Usijaribu ku-force vitu saa hizi. Wachana nayo and then when enough time imepita, just start a convo about the things muli-talk about as friends.

Yunasi

Ma-boy huwa direct. Me I think unafaa ku-talk about it. Just call the guy and talk to him how you would have talked to him before he found out that unam-like. Ask him about his day alafu just tell him that you are human and that it is very normal for you to fall for someone who treats you like you deserve, lakini unaelewa that anataka kubaki as friends. 

Elias

Hapa usistress. Just speak your mind out and tell them you’d like to be friends again. If they choose to fix things, well and good, and if they cant’, we move, ama?

Wacha niulize? If a guy doesn’t text me back, does that mean he doesn’t like me ama he’s just busy? Cause my crush anakuwanga very nice to me when we hang out lakini my DMs are drrrrry! Niko so confused.

- Amal, 17

Ken

Well he might be busy or he is thinking about how to make the relationship work😅😅😅 But seriously, some guys don’t know how to express themselves through DMs and texts. Give our boy a chance 😂

Yunasi

Saa now you see we "Boys" saa zingine tunachoma. Why would you snob a girl you like on the phone? Like who does that mahn💔💀 But if you feel you like that guy just call him talk to him how you would have talked to him before and tell him how you feel. If he doesn’t change, huyo anakucheza.

Elias

Agreed! He just doesn’t like you the way you deserve, cause if he did you’d be a priority. Cause everyone has a phone in their hand and umm yeah if he really wanted to vibe, he'd vibe.