SKY ADVICE: RELATIONSHIP EDITION

IDK how to tell my boyfriend I need to study because he has been feeling like I don’t want him

SKY sis Tee says; unaweza msho that it’s not that you don’t want him, it’s just that you need to focus on school, but unaweza suggest mstudy pamoja na kama hauko comfortable kumshow peke yako you can ask beshte wako akuhelp to explain.

I’m in a new relationship and my boyfriend wants me to change some of my principles

SKY sis Kim says; whatever relationship you are in, principles zako should be respected. Nobody should force you to change who you are. Ningesema you tell him that haufeel poa kuchange. Unaweza pia talk to him with a friend kama hauko comfortable

So there's this guy who ghosted me, I’m in a dilemma whether to ask him why or just mute him

SKY sis Jo says; ningeadvice you just let him be usiwache ukupatie pressure. Labda ana-deal na vitu zake ama anafocus on other things. 

I’m in a situation where I can’t date cause my parents are against relationships at this time

SKY sis Mary says; btw that’s okay. Kuna girls wengi that can’t or don’t want to date at this stage, lakini if kuna mtu unalike, you can start by being friends first. This way mnaget kujuana bila being in a relationship and going against your parents.

Is it okay for me to be in a relationship while still in high school, I’m so confused.

SKY sis Lilly says; ni sawa kukuwa in a relationship, zinaweza kuwa fun na enjoyable, lakini as long as ni wewe umemake that decision and nobody is forcing you. Kama si choice yako, usipate pressure kudate. Other SKY girls wamechoose ku have fun with their friends during this stage. 

Thanks babes for the questions and answers. Tuna hope imehelp mtu out there. Kumbuka you deserve pressure free, healthy relationships where you feel comfortable and your choices are respected and. If you have any questions, feel free ku-bonga na One2One on  https://one2onekenya.org/ or call 1190 (Toll free)