SKY GUY; HOW I GOT OVER A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP

Me and this girl had a healthy relationship in the beginning. Tulikuwa pamoja for a bit and we both saw a very bright future ahead of us but then she went and told me ati ana-relocate so we couldn’t continue being together. Later, nili-realize that was cap na hiyo ilikuwa red flag. Aliniwacha for another guy who she met online, lakini she still wanted me in her life na hio ni very selfish of her. 

It was hard for me to be around her when she had someone else. Ilikuwa draining and hurtful but nilitaka ku-do right by her. The thing is, whenever I started talking to other girls ali-jam and started acting jealous. 

After some time niliamua I have to cut her off because I wasn’t getting anything good out of our relationship na hio ilikuwa challenge since my friends became our friends. Wengi wao wali-side with her so I felt lonely. 

Everything worked out in the end though. I took some time to myself and learned NOT TO IGNORE RED FLAGS!! Don’t stay around people who don’t make you happy ama who hurt you. After some time, my friends also cut her off and apologized. My advice to y’all would be to always love yourself first then no one can treat you badly. Jipende sis.

Waaahhh! We feel sorry for bro but at least ametufundisha to always trust our intuition and never ignore red flags when it comes to picking the people in our lives. Kumbuka no matter who you are or where you come from, unadeserve supportive and healthy relationships.