SKY Guy: How to stay true to yourself in a relationship

Hi SKY Girls,my name is Isutsa Bradley,I’m 19 years old, football is my thing and vaping is not my thing. I will share my relationship story with you and explain why my relationship is healthy. 

Tukianza relationship yetu si ati ilikua smooth sana, most of the time tulikua tuna argue coz we were not really good at communicating with each other na kila saa we were hurting each other. So we talked na tuka decide that open communication was key. Ilibidi we create a space yenye both of us felt heard and valued na kuambiana vitu bila kuogopa but in a respectful way.

Dem wangu dreams of becoming an air hostess, while mimi niko passionate about football and journalism. Instead ya competing for time ama attention, tuliamua ku support each other's dreams. Sisi hu-set aside time for our own projects, cheering each other on lakini pia making sure tuna connect daily.

We also made it a point to check in with each other. So naeza mtext nikimwuliza, “How are you feeling leo?” Checking up often imetuhelp kuunderstand each other. If one of us had a rough day, we’d be there to listen and support bila judgement.

Another thing ni, tukianza the relationship tulikua tu tuna hangout wawili pekee kila saa, na hii haikua poa coz in as much as tunapendana we still need our friends. So we talked and decided that ni important kumaintain our friendships outside of the relationship. Saa hii sisi hu encourage each other to hang out with our friends and pursue hobbies separately, which ime strengthen our bond. Kujua that we have the freedom yaku grow as individuals imefanya tumekua even closer as a couple.

Kwa kila relationship, ni important to create a space where both of you feel comfortable being yourself. My girlfriend and I learned that by respecting each other’s choices, we not only become better individually but also tuna build a strong foundation pamoja.

Thanks sana Isutsa for sharing how you and your girlfriend stay true in your relationship. Babes, kumbukeni that a healthy relationship ni all about balance, support na open communication. If you have any questions, feel free ku-bonga confidently bila judgment na One2One SMS or CALL 1190 (FOR FREE)