What I Wish My 15-Year-Old Self Knew
12th December 2024On Failure;
Wendo, perception yako ya failure imechange sana. Kumbuka when ilikuwa the end of the world juu “ulifail” kitu? Hio si failure, hio ni sign ya ku TRY AGAIN ama inakupatia chance kureflect on what unalike or unaweza fanya better. Usigive up on yourself and your dream when inafeel kama “umefail”
On Friends;
Friend group yako imechange kabisa lakini usijali your new friends love, support na appreciate you for being you! Unlike kitambo, saa hii uko vulnerable na softer na juu ya hio ulimeet the loveliest group of girls. Your new sisters are not just people that love you and look out for you in the moment, but a lifetime. It’s beautiful, and I am thankful I didn’t give up on girlhood.
On Family;
Oh family dynamics can be stressful lol, but what is a fact, mom and papa were not against you. Najua uko worried about what they think juu hautaki ku waupset. Lakini usijali, walikuwa wanakuprotect the best way wanajua. Oh and btwww they are your friends now 😊.
On Body and Health;
Haha! First of all, we do not hate ngwashe anymore, we also have started liking avocado. The older unakuwa the more mwili yako itacrave healthy food. So tunakula poa na kuwork out regularly for our mind & body. Btw, najua hauthink wewe ni mrembo lakini hio ni uwongo. Umefall in love with yourself. There is more to figure out but the love you have for yourself right now is worth every tear you shed.
On Boys;
Sending you the biggest hug! Huyo boy didn’t know your worth. Niko proud of you for choosing yourself no matter how hard ilikuwa kupractice self-control. Choosing you ilikuwa one of the best decisions juu saa you fell inlove with yourself. Kumbuka, never settle!
On Doing What You Love;
Najua uko uncertain about venye life yako inturn out, lakini usijali, things get clearer. Kuna possibilities mob in the content creation and creative space na uko in the middle of it. Trust yourself, trust your mind and most importantly keep believing in yourself.
On peer pressure;
Heh, self-control can be so hard! Lakini najua you did your best and these days we walk out of situations zenye hazialign na our values. Mwaaa! I love you, what’s for you will never pass you and will NEVER feel forced. It was a hard a lesson to learn over and over but now it's one of our anthems.
On the future;
You are responsible for your life so ni important to take control of your life. Najua inaweza sound scary especially juu ya the “unknown” but jitrust kumake the right decisions. You are such an ICON, never forget even when the seas get rough. MWAAA, I love you!